Counter-bullying responses

Why students lie

I look back with a wry smile at some of the odd things I’ve said to students as a teacher. Once I told my class that if they were all going to have a rubbish attitude that I’d be making each of them stand in the dumpster at recess. Clearly a ridiculous threat that would never be carried out, and all of us were falling about with laughter for a moment while I came back to my senses.

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The woeful word why

We all like to know why we need to do things, far more than we like to know what we need to do or how we are expected to do it. Human motivation is largely driven by a clear purpose. Many of us chose teaching as a profession because we wanted to make a big difference in the lives of students, a why, and not because of the occasional opportunity to show students how to conjugate verbs, that’s a how or what.

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That’s not fair!

I remember teaching a fabulous class of Year 6 students who had a special sense of humour. They were also characterised by a wonderful camaraderie which made hearing about their regular escapades on weekends or even during lunch breaks a real joy. There was little ego, but a pervading inclusivity that has made me remember them fondly despite the passage of fifteen years since teaching them.

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Teaching and defining empathy

Given the thousands of anti-bullying programs that have been developed around the world, it’s little wonder that teachers have grown tired of implementing them for little return. It is clear that bullying isn’t beaten with a program, but through teaching, fostering and valuing empathy. Put simply, empathic young people don’t inflict power-driven negative and destructive behaviours upon others.

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